The Wandering Generations

Cherishing our Mountain Identity


And the sons become the fathers and their daughters will be wives
As the torch is passed from hand to hand
And we struggle through our lives
Though the generations wander, the lineage survives

Dan Fogelberg
from The Wild Places album (1990)


Two summers ago I took my children for their first real visit to my home town. They'd been there briefly a few times, to visit my mother in the hospital (before she moved to be closer to us and our "big city" medical care for the last years of her life). They'd been there again for her funeral. But they'd never spent any real time amongst the folks in Appalachia.

They had an exciting time, and loved the fact that we would see people one day, then run into them in town again the next day. Or if we didn't run into people we'd seen the day before, we might run into the person's sister or cousin, and we'd always relate that we had just seen their kin. They began to understand that the community was a collection of overlapping circles in a larger Ven Diagram. Life isn't like that in the city.

I think they were overwhelmed by everyone's friendliness, as even people I hadn't seen for decades would plead with us to follow them home and join their families for dinner. We heard "Shirley (or Homer or Libby or someone else) would be mighty glad to see you and these fine boys" or its equivalent over and over again. They'd wonder who Shirley (or Homer, or Libby) was and why anyone could possibly be glad to see someone they might have last seen when Richard Nixon was president. More baffling, but flattering, was why they, too would surely be honored guests if we had time to drive over and eat supper with Shirley or Homer or Libby, even if we weren't expected.

They also loved the local public pool, as all the pools where we live have been stripped of their high dives presumably due to fear of liability. Mountain folk apparently don't care about such trivialities. They just want to let the young 'uns have a good time.

On the last day of our visit, just after we crossed the Clinch River one last time on our way out of town, my then 8 year old asked about something I hadn't realized he'd noticed. I heard a voice from the back seat speaking in a polished, stage version of a mountain accent as we passed the pleasant green pastures in Russell County. "Maw-mie, why duz ever budy here talk lack the-is?"....And after a pause he asked a braver question, "Ur you a hee-ul-billy?" I guess I could have been offended, but he hadn't meant the comment malignantly. He'd already demanded that we return often. So I laughed. "Yes, honey I am a hillbilly." Somehow the words came out with pride. I reminded them that as members of the family, they too could claim the title of distinction. They looked at each other and smiled. "Neat. The hillbillies here are cool, mom." They didn't appreciate that hillbillies everywhere are unique and remarkable people. We're planning another extended stay for this summer and they are excited beyond my wildest expectations.

So they've embraced their inner hillbillies. And have gladly accepted that hillbilly status is an honor.

Particularly when it comes with a high dive and free suppers.


April A. Cain is an attorney, writer and mother living in Richmnd, Virginia. She is a native of St. Paul (Wise County) in far Southwest Virginia.

The Blog I So Desperately Wish I Had Thought Of Creating Myself & Demand That Everyone On Earth Add to Their Favorites List

Griffith & Feil Pharmacy in Kenova, West Virginia
(Image from the West Virginia Hot Dog Blog, which gave
Griffith & Feil a ranking of four and 1/2 Weenies)

I have reviewed a lot of blogs in my day. Some of them are touching, some of them enlightening, some of them flat out funny, and some of the absurdly useful. I don't usually review political blogs, though I do read several, mainly because, being a moderate (socially libertarian, internationally a classical realist of a Machiavellian/Hobbesian bent, domestically a pragmatic Smithian, and environmentally just right of the greens, but from a security perspective, influenced largely by Malthus and, here's the kicker, Nixon) and a political scientist I feel such an urge to deal with issues in all their historical, economic, political, and social complexity that it makes either for horrible posts or for convoluted, huge posts that take the better part of a day to write, and frankly, I ain't got that kinda' time.

I'm off subject. Apologies. Let me recenter.

As I said, I read and review many, many blogs. It is a joy for me to see folks from around Appalachia producing intellectually stimulating such-have-yous. But no words can describe that special pleasure I experienced, shattering my nervous system like a hammer to glass, when I first stumbled across the West Virginia Hot Dogs Blog (via William Stewart's political commentary blog, always an interesting read itself).

That's right. I said it. It is a blog about hot dogs. In West Virginia. And the culture of condiments associated with said hot dogs - specifically slaw. Oh my sweet jumping Deity. This blog makes me believe - no, scratch that - know that humanity is going to be okay. You know why? Because there are members of our species who appreciate the little things, the details. It can't be all bad when there is time for us to dabble in the glories of minutiae. Sigh.

Now, to be accurate, I should point out the the blog is merely a child of a broader project - West Virginia Hot Dogs. Um. Yes.

Oh, and guys, if you ever read this, you need to check out my hometown of Bluefield. Not only do the Dairy Queens (including the backwards DQ - long story) there have unique buns (like toast with a fissure of happy), but Bowen Field, home of the Bluefield Orioles, is legendary for its contributions to Canis caldarius culture. Go Baby O's.